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There is help available and sometimes there is even a chance for the police and prosecutors to get some justice and hold the criminal accountable.
In California recently, Gov. Jerry Brown wisely signed a law (SB 813) abolishing the statute of limitations for serious sexual assault cases.
As a career prosecutor, I have been working for such a law for 16 years. And now we have it. It is prospective only; it doesn't apply to crimes occurring prior to Jan. 1, 2017. However, the laws in the states are different from one another and depending on where a survivor lives, there may be able to be a prosecution.
Even if prosecution is not an option, a survivor can access support such as counseling, but only when they summon the courage to come forward.
Your answer encouraging them to do so was morally right and most welcome.
Jay B in California
Dear Jay: Thank you so much.
I am of the firm belief that someone who is brave enough to send a letter to me is already taking the first step toward healing.
I hope it gives assault survivors a boost to know that their bravery inspires countless unknown people who read their story and may choose to act on their own behalf.
Different states have different statutes of limitations, but there is no limitation on compassionate help. Even years later, trauma survivors can recover by telling their stories, by accepting assistance and by helping others.
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