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Lori Borgman: Count your blessings, not your calories
‘Tis the season to be thankful, which is why I am hanging tight to the fourth Thursday in November. I may be hanging on by the greasy tip of a wishbone swinging dangerously low over scalding hot gravy, but I refuse to let go of Thanksgiving, the only holiday that has not been grossly commercialized.
For starters, I am thankful there is no ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: When his tattoo gets to you
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. We do not live together but see each other or talk almost every day. His ex died three years ago. They had a daughter, who is 6, who lives with my boyfriend. The problem is my boyfriend has a very large tattoo of both his ex and his daughter’s names on his chest right above his heart. This makes...Read more
She got seizures at 17 months old. So her dad wrote a musical about epilepsy and empathy
LOS ANGELES -- In March 1998, Ben Decter drove from Los Angeles to Tijuana to get medicine for his 17-month-old daughter, Addie. She had "catastrophic childhood epilepsy," the neurologist had told him, and a drug not yet available in the U.S. was their best bet to treat her nonstop seizures.
That terrifying moment is currently revisited five ...Read more
Detailed exploration of medieval life — with a unique twist
What would you do if you could suddenly live hundreds of years? What would your future look like? Would you even know where to start?
Anthony Hamer answers these questions and more in "M Was Twenty August 1346," a historical novel that’s sure to excite every reader’s imagination.
August 1346. Marcel de Bois, known to most simply as M, was ...Read more
She's a psychologist – and a heart attack survivor
Kiki Fehling was enjoying a dance class she regularly attended when the weirdest thing happened.
Trying to lift her arms above her head, she couldn't do it.
Moments earlier, she had another bizarre sensation – like a metal bar was squeezing her chest, making it difficult for her to breathe.
Fehling was 29 and living in New York while ...Read more
Mammograms could be a new weapon against heart disease
Some health care providers are trying to give mammograms a new purpose — assessing heart disease risks. The practice is not unanimously accepted among health experts, however.
Mammograms are X-ray examinations that detect breast disease, and they’ve helped diminish the United States’ breast cancer mortality rate by almost 40% since 1990. ...Read more
Expert tapestry of Jewish history and gripping mystery
In 2005, American journalist and single father Judah Loeb returns to Israel to investigate the decades-old death of an academic mentor and Holocaust survivor, only to discover that the past is indeed a foreign land in Philip Graubart’s entrancing "Here There Is No Why."
Ten years after the suicide of his wife, Mary, Judah is sent on ...Read more
Managing The Family's Holiday Expectations
Q: This year we moved into a new (larger) house. So, for the first time at Thanksgiving and Christmas, the entire extended family will be under one roof: ours. How can we manage the stress of hosting?
Jim: The holiday season should be the most joyous time of the year -- but often it's the most stressful. I think a big reason is how we build up ...Read more
Junk the 'Junk Food' Judgment, Please
"This is junk food, Mommy."
That's what my 6-year-old told me as he sat down to his pre-swimming lesson snack. I'd given him peanut butter pretzels, fruit snacks and a piece of leftover Halloween candy.
"It's bad for me, and I'll get tired in a half-hour," he went on, starting to cry. "I don't want to get tired in a half-hour."
As I talked ...Read more
A Child Goes Missing, as Does Common Sense
"We lost our son today for 15 mins. 1st time, and it was terrifying."
So begins a post on the Raising Independent Kids Facebook group I run. Any parent can relate. In fact, a viral story in the news right now is one I was the first to report: A Georgia mom was arrested because she left her son, 10, home while she ran an errand, and instead of ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'RED ONE'
Rated PG-13 (for action, some violence, and language)
What it’s about: Santa Claus is kidnapped right before Christmas, so his head of security and a hacker go looking for him among mythical beasts and beings.
The kid attractor factor: This sort of has a kiddie appeal with the holiday cheer and monsters and creatures, but it also...Read more
Lori Borgman: Cooking up a surprise dish
Years ago, a bona fide gourmet cook showed me how she passed off store-bought bread as homemade by sprinkling a little sifted flour on top.
From that day forward, I was always suspicious of her offerings at large gatherings, although I greatly admired her ability to economize time and energy.
Not long after, my mother tried to pull a fast one ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Thanksgiving dilemma
Q. I wish I could say I look forward to the holidays, but now that my kids’ mother and I have split up, it just seems impossible. Thanksgiving is the worst. We used to live in the same neighborhood, therefore alternating just Thanksgiving Day worked. But their mom recently moved to the next town. The kids hate sitting in the car. I hate ...Read more
Given 3 years to live at birth, heart defect survivor is now a nurse and mom
A few days after Mindy Beyer was born, doctors delivered crushing news to her parents: You'll be lucky if your baby lives until age 3.
Mindy was born with a variety of heart problems. Her ventricles were reversed and there was a hole between them, making it difficult for her heart to efficiently pump blood.
At 1 month old, Mindy underwent ...Read more
Hours after a massive stroke, 39-year-old was talking and moving
For a week or so, Ashley Lunardini felt an intermittent pain in her neck. She also had a dull headache that wouldn't go away. She'd had neck pain before, but headaches were rare.
Overall, she was in excellent health. At 39, she went to Pilates class three times a week, walked every day and ate healthy meals.
She went to see her primary care ...Read more
Must-read royal tales every fan of 'The Crown' should devour
Writers have often turned to the royal family for inspiration, but in recent years it has been fiction, rather than factual biographies, that have grown in popularity.
And the royals are not only inspiring writers in book form. From the BBC series, "Victoria," based on the book by Daisy Goodwin about the life of young Queen Victoria, to the ...Read more
Helping Kids Find Activities They Love
Q: My wife and I are committed to helping our kids explore their natural talents in sports, music, and other areas as they grow up. But every time we try something new, the kids seem to hate it. I'm perplexed -- what's the secret?
Jim: The first question to ask is a powerful one: "Who's more interested in this activity -- my child, or me?"
I'...Read more
A Short List of Things I Never Want to Hear About Again
Now that the 2024 presidential election has come to its inevitable if protracted conclusion, can we turn the page? Donald Trump won so we won't have to sit through years of conspiracy theories about how Democrats have been training tiny monkeys to live in the ballot scanners and reject all Trump votes, but there are plenty of other matters I'd...Read more
How Parenting Got So Intense
You can't find a better explanation of the rise of helicopter parenting and how, when and why that morphed into "intensive parenting" than this New York Times podcast from a few weeks ago, inspired by the surgeon general's report on parental burnout.
Michael Barbaro, host of "The Daily," interviews Claire Cain Miller, a Times reporter (and the ...Read more
Nevada: What will it mean for CCSD board if 2 former Moms for Liberty members are elected?
LAS VEGAS — On Wednesday morning, Clark County School Board Trustee Linda Cavazos received a call from a mother of a gender diverse student. She expressed that she was so frightened by election results that she was considering pulling her child out of the Clark County School District.
Two school board candidates with ties to parental rights ...Read more
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