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Debra-Lynn B. Hook: Mammas in our kerchiefs getting Christmas 'right'
As we round the corner to Christmas, I feel compelled to say something to women across the land:
It’s OK.
It’s OK that you didn’t get the same amount of presents for each child.
It’s OK that you shopped for yourself. Not once or twice, but often.
It’s OK that you didn’t meet your Christmas budget while negotiating a trillion-...Read more
Lori Borgman: Searching through the Christmas lost and found
The kitchen becomes my primary place of residence the week before Thanksgiving and continues straight on through New Year's Day. I should probably file a change-of-address card with the post office.
The kitchen counter is littered with crumpled dish towels, soiled hot pads and towering stacks of dirty cookie sheets and mixing bowls. Pots ...Read more
After fun concert, mother of 3 had a heart attack
Last fall, 46-year-old lawyer Priti Langer took a trip to Baltimore with a group of fellow women to see singing greats Billy Joel and Stevie Nicks perform.
The outing was a 50th birthday celebration for a friend and neighbor in Langer's Fairfax, Virginia neighborhood. When Langer rolled her suitcase into the hotel, she felt a flutter in her ...Read more
Lives and truths laid bare in short story collection
Award-winning author Bill VanPatten tends to capture all those acts and emotions in his characters, drawing heavily on gay themes and Latino heritage in and around the small, fictitious town of Mañana, situated in California, which he describes as “a patchwork quilt of cities and small towns, urban areas and vast agricultural lands, foggy ...Read more
How to have a great Christmas on a budget
The holiday season is meant to be a carefree celebration, bringing people together to enjoy each other’s company and traditions. As it overlaps with the end of the year, people hope to leave the daily stress of normal life behind and enjoy time with the ones they love.
This goal becomes complicated, however, when the desire to have a perfect ...Read more
Maintaining your Elf on the Shelf’s magic doesn’t have to break the bank
Feeling the elf-haustion? Does coming up with new adventures for your nighttime Santa spy have you stressed out? Holly (or Buddy or Snowflake) doesn’t need elaborate setups or expensive props to keep the wonder alive.
Here’s how to reclaim the joy while saving your sanity.
Keep it simple, Santa
“The elf just has to move, no need to ...Read more
Lori Borgman: What not to buy the Hard to Buy For
We have officially entered the "Hard to Buy For" season of life. I am reminded of this every time someone asks me what we'd like for Christmas. No one has said we are hard to buy for in so many words. It's more the looks -- the eye rolls, the raised eyebrows, the barely suppressed expressions of shock and horror.
"We like those little books of ...Read more
Soldier seeks purpose beyond the battlefield in biographical fiction
It is a grey November morning when an American foreigner in the Peace Corps makes his way through Ukraine aboard a cramped bus. Here, in an unfamiliar land, he hopes he can start fresh and leave his Army days and the war behind him, but he has yet to reconcile with a past he is trying to forget.
Inspired by author Caleb Shawn Sully’s own ...Read more
Stopping colds, flu and infectious diseases is her job – as a scientist and a new mom
Dr. Zerelda Esquer Garrigos was in medical school when she became fascinated by a 1926 book about the discovery of microbes.
"I was captivated by the idea that there are countless 'worlds' within our own – microorganisms that coexist with us, often without our awareness, yet some can cause disease," she said about Paul de Kruif's scientific ...Read more
Investigative novel questions mysterious death of da Vinci
“What the heck is going on in Leonardo’s message!”
In a masterful work with particular appeal for amateur sleuths, historians and art aficionados, author D. Allen Henry has crafted a thoughtful novel, "Killing Genius: The Mysterious Last Days of Leonardo da Vinci," based around the premise that Leonardo da Vinci’s death was a murder.
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Lori Borgman: Screen tests aren't just for movie stars
I had an identity crisis yesterday. It was the fourth one this week. Online accounts keep questioning if it's really me.
I have the same thought a lot of mornings when I look in the mirror.
The bank insisted I confirm my identity before I could access our account -- all because I made one teeny tiny typo entering the passcode. Flustered and in...Read more
Memoir seeks to destigmatize and explore nuance of mental illness
It’s a hard subject to talk about, especially for someone suffering from it. “Many of us have been labeled or even seen ourselves as freaks, weirdos, oddballs, eccentrics and outcasts. So it’s no surprise that many of us attempt to keep our illness hidden to the extent we can.”
That’s what makes Victoria Maiden’s intimate, heartfelt...Read more
Epic space adventure told through neurodivergent lens
Set in an epic voyage through outer space, "Space City" by William Spencer effortlessly weaves together science fiction, action, suspense, drama and romance.
It’s the 22nd century, and everyone knew Earth was about to be destroyed — just not so soon. With a meteor within days of destroying Earth, 27-year-old Spencer Collins is forced to ...Read more
Do kids need their cholesterol checked? What parents and pediatricians should know.
Cholesterol tests are well-established as an important part of a routine health screening – for adults. For young people, it's another story.
Relatively few children and teenagers are screened for cholesterol issues. Several factors, including differences in medical experts' recommendations, might confuse parents and even their primary care ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Take a number to use the landline
Three of our elementary-school grands have a new landline phone sitting in their family room. They called us multiple times the first week it was installed, each time saying, "Hello, Watson?"
No, they didn't. Each time a soft voice cautiously said, "Hello, Grandma?"
The poor things were apprehensive. A handset that rests in a base alongside a ...Read more
Filling in the blanks on adoptees' medical history
For many people, filling out paperwork about their family's health history is a routine part of a medical visit. For adopted people like Ramya Gruneisen, it's impossible.
"We don't have any information about my biological mom or dad, so there's quite literally nothing to go off of," said Gruneisen, who was born in India and adopted by a couple ...Read more
Shedding light on the unique trauma of a Holocaust survivor’s child
There’s a school of thought that argues how important it is for the remaining Holocaust survivors to discuss their experiences while they still can, so that subsequent generations can learn from the past. Studies have supported this line of thinking.
Estimates tag the remaining number of Jewish Holocaust survivors at about 245,000. But try to...Read more
2 souls pursue justice while navigating their own paths to healing
Set between 1964 and 1972 in Meridien, Virginia, "The Little Bird" is a true-life-based psychological novel by the historical fiction author of "The Crossing," Ashby Jones. In "The Little Bird," the murder of a black teenage boy by a white cop unites two kindred spirits who are individually grappling with grief and guilt.
In 1964, Shane ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Count your blessings, not your calories
‘Tis the season to be thankful, which is why I am hanging tight to the fourth Thursday in November. I may be hanging on by the greasy tip of a wishbone swinging dangerously low over scalding hot gravy, but I refuse to let go of Thanksgiving, the only holiday that has not been grossly commercialized.
For starters, I am thankful there is no ...Read more
Detailed exploration of medieval life — with a unique twist
What would you do if you could suddenly live hundreds of years? What would your future look like? Would you even know where to start?
Anthony Hamer answers these questions and more in "M Was Twenty August 1346," a historical novel that’s sure to excite every reader’s imagination.
August 1346. Marcel de Bois, known to most simply as M, was ...Read more