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Q: My kids' friends are all excitedly talking about their families' summer vacation plans. Unfortunately, we're in a tight spot and can't do anything substantial. I know my children are disappointed. How can I make it up to them?

Jim: One of the best lessons I've ever learned about parenting happened when my now-adult sons were in elementary ...Read more

Q: Our daughter is about to graduate from high school. We're somewhat concerned that she doesn't seem to be overly enthusiastic about the values we've tried to teach her. This is discouraging to us as parents. Is it too late?

Jim: I'd say most parents struggle at some point with this kind of concern. Here's my advice: Be patient. You've planted...Read more

Q: I have a lot of bitterness about the way my parents treated me growing up. After all these years, I still struggle with negative feelings; all I remember is their harsh criticism, unloving attitude and generally dysfunctional parenting. But I'm really worried about how these memories might affect my relationship with my own kids. Help?!?

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Q: Most of the time I love being a mom. But sometimes I get discouraged in the middle of all the mess and wonder if anything I do now will really matter when my little ones are all grown up. I need some encouragement!

Jim: I'd like to share a story that might help illustrate something important.

There's an ancient tale about an army who found ...Read more