ArcaMax

Q: I struggle at my job with feeling overlooked and unappreciated. I'm surrounded by people with more experience, skill, and/or education who get the attention. It's pretty discouraging; how can I keep my attitude up?

Jim: I'd say don't look down on yourself; your role may be much more important than you think. Let me give you an illustration. ...Read more

Q: I know my 10-year-old daughter is going to be facing tremendous peer pressure as she matures and enters the teen years. How can I help her develop the confidence to resist and stay true to the values we're teaching her?

Jim: Far too many teenagers seem incapable of resisting their friends when it counts. The good news is your children can ...Read more

Q: One of my not-so-distant relatives is an extremely difficult person to be around. "Chris" can spot a flaw from across the room -- and never wastes an opportunity to criticize. I know I shouldn't care what "Chris" thinks, but I do. Help?

Jim: This is something that many of us experience. The closer our relationship with a critical person, the...Read more

Q: I'm not much for resolutions, but I do like to take stock occasionally. I've got a good life -- solid career, married well, good kids, nice home. Still, I don't want to miss anything. What's your best "man-to-man" advice for the next, say, 20 years?

Jim: I think the critical key is to ask yourself: Where do you really find your fulfillment? ...Read more