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Dear Annie: As an animal lover, I hope you'll consider sharing this important message.

To anyone thinking about getting a dog for the holidays, please take these points to heart:

No. 1: Do Not Surprise Anyone with a Pet

A pet is a lifelong commitment, not a spur-of-the-moment gift. Surprising someone with a dog can lead to heartbreak if they're unprepared.

No. 2: Adopt, Don't Shop

Millions of wonderful dogs are euthanized annually in the U.S., a crisis worsened since COVID-19. Even if you want a specific breed, there are purebred dogs in shelters and rescues waiting for homes. Spend a day at a shelter on euthanasia day, and you'll see why adoption is the compassionate choice. Or look for a responsible breeder.

No. 3: Spay and Neuter Your Pets

There is no excuse not to spay or neuter. Many communities offer low-cost clinics or discount coupons through local organizations like the Chamber of Commerce. This simple step saves countless lives.

No. 4: Be Financially and Emotionally Ready

If you can't afford quality food, routine vet care and heartworm prevention, please don't get a dog. Dogs also thrive on companionship and should be with their human family -- not left in an outdoor pen or alone all day.

No. 5: Be Aware of Safety Risks

Leaving dogs outside unattended puts them at risk of theft for use as bait dogs, resale or even medical research. Dogs are family members, not yard decorations.

No. 6: Plan for the Long Term

If there's a chance you'll move and leave the dog behind, don't get one. Match the dog's energy level with your lifestyle; a high-energy dog isn't right for a couch potato. And if you're a senior, consider adopting an older dog instead of a puppy.

No. 7: Volunteer or Foster

If you're not ready for a permanent commitment, consider volunteering or fostering for a rescue organization. They desperately need help and foster families.

Yes, it's a free country, and everyone has the right to make their own choices. But I'm pleading with you to make compassionate and responsible decisions for these wonderful animals. -- Animal Lover

Dear Animal lover: Thank you for your letter. I hope it inspires more people to adopt a pet and or give a little extra love to the pets they already have. Wishing you and your family a very happy holiday season.

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