ArcaMax

Q: We're perplexed by our 5-year-old son's behavior. Recently he's taken to shouting when he gets angry and using words that seem beyond his usual vocabulary; not swearing, just different. We're not sure where he's getting this. What can we do?

Jim: I'd humbly suggest that the first place to look might be close at hand. I'll give an ...Read more

Q: Our family has been through a few challenges but overall I think we're pretty healthy relationally. Still, our day-to-day lives together seem a little flat and mundane. Do you have any advice?

Jim: I'd suggest you start with an honest assessment of how often you laugh together -- because as the saying goes, it truly is good medicine ...Read more

Q: My teenagers are good kids. There are many things I want to communicate to them before they go off to college in a few years. But I can't get them to respond when I try to share what's on my heart. What's the secret to having meaningful conversations with teens?

Jim: Having raised two sons to adulthood, I can sympathize. My boys can be ...Read more

Q: Following my retirement, I used to have time to volunteer. I've tried to make a point of being a positive influence on people. But since my wife got sick last year, most of my energy goes to caring for her. How can I still make an impact on others?

Jim: I'll start by emphasizing that I firmly believe you ARE making an impact on others -- ...Read more