Ways to take control of your finances
Luckily, it's never too late to take charge of your finances. Consider outside help, such as working with a financial advisor, taking classes at a local library, or even asking a close friend or family member to hold you accountable.
"Don't go it alone," Rebell, who is also the author of "Launching Financial Grownups," advised. "The stakes are high, so make sure someone has your back. Other people will be more supportive if they know you're struggling, and when you do make a mistake they will be more forgiving."
It's also important to be kind to yourself—and don't be afraid to correct mistakes if and when they happen.
"We all make bad decisions, whether we have ADHD or not," Rebell said. The good news, she noted, is "almost anything you do, you can undo."
This includes returning those shoes you still haven't worn or canceling big purchases like airline tickets or hotels, which usually have a 24-hour cancellation window. If you signed up for a gym or streaming service you're not using often, consider suspending your membership to relieve some pressure.
To prevent overspending online, Rebell suggests slowing down and giving yourself time to think about a purchase before hitting the "buy" button.
"The most important thing is do not let your credit card information stay online, always force yourself to retype in the number," Rebell said.
Leaving an item in your virtual cart for 24 hours allows you to weigh whether you really need it and may allow you to find cheaper alternatives. As a bonus, some retailers will send you a discount code as an incentive to follow through.
Automation, with checks and balances, also helps. To avoid temptation, set up your paycheck so the money goes into savings and retirement accounts before it hits your checking account. To prevent late fees, which can negatively impact your credit score, Rebell suggests setting up minimum payments on your credit card and paying more later in the month if you can.
Alerts and reminders on your phone can remind you to check in. Rebell suggests reviewing your debit card purchases once a week and going through credit card bills every month to track your spending. This practice allows you to find items you can return or cancel, including subscriptions.
Break things down into smaller, more manageable tasks to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
"Don't 'save for retirement' by focusing on the big number you will need years from now," Rebell said. Instead, put a slightly higher percentage of your pay in your 401(k) every six months and remember: "Slow and steady wins the race."
Story editing by Carren Jao. Additional editing by Kelly Glass. Copy editing by Kristen Wegrzyn.
This story originally appeared on ADHD Advisor and was produced and distributed in partnership with Stacker Studio.
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